I'm having trouble at the moment. At the moment I have 2 girls in my heart and on my mind. One who I love, and one who loves me. I can't let go of the one that I love, because I do not understand why I love her. I can't let go of the one that loves me, because I do not wish to hurt her. A friend once told me that sometimes we have to hurt people, and sometimes it can end up being a good thing, because it helps them grow. I'm not sure that would be the case in this instance, however. I told her...